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1 Elephant/Rider Model
2 The Elephant…
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2.1 Training the Elephant
2.2 Retraining the Elephant
2.3 Feeding the Elephant
2.4 Bias in the Elephant
3 The Rider…
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3.1 When the Rider Leads!
3.2 Rider Modes
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3.2.1 Observing Self
3.2.2 Processor Self
3.2.3 The Inner Lawyer
3.3 Bias in the Rider
4 Psychological Skills…
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4.1 #1 Psychological Skill
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4.1.1 Why Sitting Quietly
4.1.2 Why SQ Works
4.1.3 Ways to Engage SQ
4.2 Self-Awareness
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4.2.1 The Observing Self
4.2.2 Defusion
4.3 Self-Regulation
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4.3.1 Step Back
4.3.2 Acceptance
4.3.5 Self-Talk
4.3.7 Critical Thinking Skills
4.4 CBT in the ERM
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4.4.1 Using CBT
4.5 Workability
4.6 Effective Criticism
4.7 Appeal to the Elephant
5 Awakening…
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5.1 Conditioning
5.2 Ignorance
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5.2.1 More on Ignorance
5.3 Delusion
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5.3.1 The Elephant Duped
5.3.2 A Dichotomy Disorder…
5.3.3 The Wrath…
5.3.4 Types of Delusion
SQ
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Sitting Quietly
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SQ-Why
SQ How To
One Way of SQ
Tips on SQ
SQ Listing
1 Self-Care…
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1.1 On Being…
1.2 On Well-Being…
1.3 On the Big Rocks…
1.4 On Integrity
1.5 Your North Star
2 Relaxation…
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2.1 Abdominal Breathing
2.2 Box Breathing
2.3 Relaxation Response
2.4 A Calming Intervention
2.5 Muscle Relaxation
3 The Observing Self…
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3.1 Using CBT
4 Defusion…
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4.1 …With Thoughts
4.2 Getting Rid Of…
4.3 …With Feelings
4.4 …With Difficult Feelings
4.5 …When Distressed
5 Acceptance
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5.1 Acceptance 101
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Life Practices…
1 Self-Care
2 Well Being
3 Sitting Quietly
4 Personal Growth
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4.1 Awakening
4.2 The Examined Life
4.3 Goal Setting
5 The Habit of Discovery
6 Altruism (“Their-Care”)
CBT
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Change the World…
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– The Captain
– The Subway
Introduction to CBT
Using CBT
CBT Basic Concepts…
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– Thoughts vs Feelings
– Core Beliefs & Conditioning
– Why We Learn
– Psychological Skills
Defense Mechanisms
Common Distortions
Automatic Thoughts (ATs)
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– Questioning ATs
– Examples of ATs
Disputation Strategies
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1 Elephant/Rider Model
2 The Elephant…
2.1 Training the Elephant
2.2 Retraining the Elephant
2.3 Feeding the Elephant
3 The Rider…
3.1 When the Rider Leads!
3.2 Rider Modes
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3.2.1 Observing Self
3.2.2 Processor Self
3.2.3 The Inner Lawyer
4 Psychological Skills…
4.1 #1 Psychological Skill
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4.1.1 Why Sitting Quietly
4.1.2 Why SQ Works
4.1.3 Ways to Engage SQ
4.2 Self-Awareness
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4.2.1 The Observing Self
4.2.2 Defusion
4.3 Self-Regulation
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4.3.1 Step Back
4.3.2 Acceptance
4.3.5 Self-Talk
4.3.7 Critical Thinking Skills
4.4 CBT in the ERM
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4.4.1 Using CBT
4.5 Workability
4.6 Effective Criticism
4.7 Appeal to the Elephant
5 Awakening…
5.1 Conditioning
5.2 Ignorance
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5.2.1 More on Ignorance
5.3 Delusion
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5.3.1 The Elephant Duped
5.3.2 A Dichotomy Disorder…
5.3.3 The Wrath…
5.3.4 Types of Delusion
SQ
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Sitting Quietly
Why Sitting Quietly
How To Sit Quietly
One Way of Sitting Quietly
Tips on Sitting Quietly
SQ Listing
1 Self-Care
1.1 On Being…
1.2 On Well-Being…
1.3 On the Big Rocks…
1.4 On Integrity
1.5 Your North Star
2 Relaxation
2.1 Abdominal Breathing
2.2 Box Breathing
2.3 Relaxation Response
2.4 A Calming Intervention
2.5 Muscle Relaxation
3 The Observing Self…
3.1 Using CBT
4 Defusion…
4.1 …With Thoughts
4.2 Getting Rid Of…
4.3 …With Feelings
4.4 …With Difficult Feelings
4.5 …When Distressed
5 Acceptance
5.1 Acceptance 101
LP
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Life Practices…
1 Self-Care
2 Well Being
3 Sitting Quietly
4 Personal Growth
4.1 Awakening
4.2 The Examined Life
4.3 Goal Setting
5 The Habit of Discovery
6 Altruism (“Their-Care”)
CBT
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Change the World…
– The Captain
– The Subway
Introduction to CBT
Using CBT
CBT Basic Concepts…
– Thoughts vs Feelings
– Core Beliefs & Conditioning
– Why We Learn
– Psychological Skills
Defense Mechanisms
Common Distortions
Automatic Thoughts (ATs)
– Questioning ATs
– Examples of ATs
Disputation Strategies
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